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<h1 style="text-align: center;">Direct Dating Game Vs. Indirect Dating Game</h1> <img src="https://media.istockphoto.com/id/2187430803/photo/a-woman-sits-at-the-kitchen-counter-and-checks-her-monthly-budget-via-online-banking-using-a.jpg?s=612x612&w=0&k=20&c=SpOiscwsDZy8dstwZznRzvoNqse0Vlp_r6lW6rhMnPw=" alt="" width="900" /> There are really two types of game and when you read <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com">dating blogs</a> you should always place these into the two categories when you read them with the intention of applying it your own style and repertoire – as usual  you need to be congruent with what you want. A lot of bad dating game comes from incongruities – it can come from lack of proper motivation, or improper style for the girls you are trying to game. Of course when you break it down to the bare bones, meaning the minimum amount of game you should be running like it’s your new operating system – game is really only about a couple of things that works both in <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?gender=female">new girls</a> and in <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?page=28">long term relationships</a>. That is inner game (being in tune with your self and your desires – and being confident in both and in your life – also the embracing of independence and losing the fear of loss and the fear of being alone, etc); then there’s acting aloof and indifferent (not letting any girl really get to you, get you out of your frame, not trying; having charisma so you can talk to anyone any time and make them feel comfortable; and finally learning to know when it’s time to escalate, and then escalate and finish. Outside of these basic rules everything else will fall into two categories of direct game and indirect dating game. In this instance I’m not referring to direct game as being fully direct in your approach of a new girl and letting her know you want to fuck and escalate right away – I mean more of being a PUA type and going for consistent <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?page=73">ONS</a> or <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?page=62">short term flings</a>. It’s direct because it’s more focused on an immediate fuck close or fuck close within three dates, whereas indirect game that I’m referring to here is the more relaxed game and not mind going out for a few dates before banging her and creating more of a bond and giving more of a chance for a relationship to blossom, if one so desires. You should determine which style you want to do, but not only that, which style are you willing to dedicate your life to – because I believe it’s difficult to switch from one gear to the other, at least for most men that aren’t a demigod like myself. If you are dedicating your life to just racking up notches, you set up in your mind that that’s what you will be doing, and you need to take on the proper game aspects that suits this approach, the more direct methods, or traditional PUA methods, while determining what in that style suits your own blossoming technique (I like to use the word blossoming because it really irritates one of my buddies. You’re welcome.). With this style you can get away with focusing less on comfort building and rapport building than you would with the more indirect dating game, and go more for the type of girl that is easier prey for this style. Girls who are on the alpha cock carousel – girls who want to party, <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?page=82">girls who are DTF</a>, girls who frequent clubs and bars; girls in their early and mid 20′s or younger (or aging cougars) – basically the non good girls (yes there are still some, well good compared to the more slutty variety). In this mode you may be more unwilling to stick with one and you will be able to build a harem – but, you may miss out on a great girl if you are secretly desiring a relationship but are telling yourself you want to be a player. You need the player stomach to be an alpha cad like this. Indirect game offers quite a bit and has many advantages over direct game. Whereas direct game will get you faster lays, and allow you to go through flakes and rejections like it ain’t no thang, it will on the downside mean that you are facing a lot more upfront rejection. Whereas indirect game, the softer of the two is focused more on a patient game, where you build rapport and attraction and a bond with a girl so that she’s comfortable with you enough to escalate with her – indirect game is used on skittish chicks who are afraid of alpha cad’s and being played – someone with a nice heart who generally wants to be with someone – or one’s that the direct method wouldn’t work on – the more wholesome kind that aren’t walking around in stiletto’s or are super flirts and attention whores. We spend a lot of time talking about gaming those girls because they seem to outweigh <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=3">the good girls these days</a>. Regardless the indirect method can work for a lot of guys who don’t want to go out every single night or want to put the effort of getting new bangs all the time. And with that being said, it also has the advantage of still being able to fuck close on same night dates or outings. The downside is… and this is a big one, is that girls will be very in love with you if your indirect dating game is tight. This is a problem if you don’t want to be serious with the girl, or if you are actually wanting to be a player using the direct method. If you are somewhere in between you can really do some damage to yourself and be in no mans land when it comes to gaming girls, you could be being direct sometimes with some girls, and indirect with others, you can even mix them up and do the opposite of what you should be doing with each type – you can also get into a bad habit with this in between routine, which leads to ingruencies that girls can pick up on. You want to really identify what you want right now and what you will want down the line, and adjust accordingly.